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I just spent 15 minutes staring idly at my laptop screen. I envy those people who always have things to write about in their blogs. And I thought I am random.

Last night, I was as usual, checking facebook, clicking on people's profile, looking at their pictures and I stumbled upon this girl's page. Her primary photo was what caught my eyes first. Her name will remain undisclosed throughout this entire post. Anyway, her photos. I began my clicking frenzy, one picture after another.. one indecent picture after another. I don't even find them sexy.

It is really a pity to see our young people do this. She also has a blog and she can write very well. Very expressive with wide vocabulary. But people see past through this. People see the pictures, not what she has to say to stand up for herself. She argued in one of her posts that people should not judge her by what she wears. My dear friend, people will definitely judge you by what you wear. That is why businessmen go to their business meetings wearing expensive suits, lawyers and doctors all do the same.

There is nothing wrong with expressing yourselves. They say it is a free world. But to be naive as to believe this... Sweety, you are really just 21 years old.


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raise the stack

One of the ways to get a person's attention is by playing hard to get. Yes, I have just realised that. This is in fact the truth. If you want a girl to look your way, or if you want a man to pour his heart out then this is the way. Play hard too get, although not too hard as that will just bored the players. A good example is from Gossip Girl's relationship between Chuck and Blair. God I love their characters.

They both have multiple personalities. They are the devil of the devils. But they can also be the sweetest angels. They are manipulative in their ways but a good bestfriend. They despised each other but at the same time the first to lend a hand to help.

I think being a bit egotistical can also help.

Remember when Blair was in a denial and couldn't admit that she was falling for him? And the way she walked away after an argument with Chuck but make sure to turn around to make sure she didn't hurt him too bad (I may exaggerate this hehe) or the way he would say hurtful things to her and turned away not to see her cry, but looked her from the corner of his eyes to make sure she didn't cry too much.


These things are to spice things up and there is nothing than a dull, boring relationship to kill.. well that relationship. Agree?

Did i just stray out of topic? hehe Anyway, yes play hard to get to get the attention. Good luck! :D