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One of the ways to get a person's attention is by playing hard to get. Yes, I have just realised that. This is in fact the truth. If you want a girl to look your way, or if you want a man to pour his heart out then this is the way. Play hard too get, although not too hard as that will just bored the players. A good example is from Gossip Girl's relationship between Chuck and Blair. God I love their characters.

They both have multiple personalities. They are the devil of the devils. But they can also be the sweetest angels. They are manipulative in their ways but a good bestfriend. They despised each other but at the same time the first to lend a hand to help.

I think being a bit egotistical can also help.

Remember when Blair was in a denial and couldn't admit that she was falling for him? And the way she walked away after an argument with Chuck but make sure to turn around to make sure she didn't hurt him too bad (I may exaggerate this hehe) or the way he would say hurtful things to her and turned away not to see her cry, but looked her from the corner of his eyes to make sure she didn't cry too much.


These things are to spice things up and there is nothing than a dull, boring relationship to kill.. well that relationship. Agree?

Did i just stray out of topic? hehe Anyway, yes play hard to get to get the attention. Good luck! :D